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रात

  जैसे जैसे रात होती है, वो मेरे कंधे पर बैठ जाती थी, कहते है भूतो में वजन  होता है, लेकिन मुझे तो अच्छा लगता है , हम पूरी रात बाते करते, उसकी आवाज़ मेरी जैसी ही है, जैसे मै बिना लिपस्टिक लगाए लगती हूँ , same  वैसी ही है वो भी, लेकिन उसके हाथ सुंदर है, और वो कम बोलती है  " पर हम बाते करते है, रोते है, और सुबह होने पर चुप हो जाते है, उसको पसंद नहीं है, किसी से मिलना, वो मुझे सब की बात बताती है,   मुझे अच्छी  लगती है अब वो, जैसे मुझे किसी का डर नहीं,  उसने कहा नहीं अभी तक कुछ करने का, लेकिन बस वो नाराज़ होती है, जैसे कोई चेहरा बनाता वो वैसे, अच्छी दोस्त है वो मेरी, उसने बोला है वो मुझे एक दिन अपने साथ ले कर जाएगी!  

ART OF SPEAKING

 

The Art of speaking and knowledge can make your communication attractive with words and makes you the winner.





Communication is a key to delivers your emotions and expression to others . According to the Definition " A process by which information is exchanged between individuals through a common system of symbols, words ,signs, or behavior is called Communication.

we are humans and we are part of social life . we can not disparate yourselves from the society. We needs words , " GOOD words " .Have you ever notice a person who is standing road side and homeless and usually beg for money ? A person who works in the office ? or a person who is admired star or a leader .

lets not confuse you . What about Adolf Hitler ? Hitler had a great power in his words , he know very well how to speak ,what word he must to use and what can turn the mind of people with him . Usually people says that he is the great mind washer in the history of politics ,but this line leads us to the another truth also That " He is the best speaker ."

his speech left an impact to the listeners . According to the sources only 1500 people came in his first speech . He gave total 1525 speech in his career .

So can words left impact ? yes no doubt . you should learn and observe what suits on you . Play with Good choice of words , smile ,hand gesture and good manner .

How to greet

Greet is the commence part . lets begin with a mini smile .(you can practice with mirror ) Good morning /good evening/hello/hi/good to see you/ pleasure to meet you ./nice to meet you /i am just thinking about you /

Art of compliment

Its a fact that human like compliments , even the complimented words stay longer in our mind . Be nice to others even you don't like them . You look nice today/ your eyes are so shiny/ you smell so fresh/you have lovely smile /i appreciate your time and effort . Try to at least one compliment in your conversation.

Mark your words

To becoming a good speaker you must listen first , This is important too . you should gave others a first chance to speak so then they can complete their words after that try to speak clear and soft , so many people are having harsh and us not so clear words . Try to gave pose between words .use smile and eyes expression too . use "ok so i think you guys should rethink on my opinion /you are correct but let me give a chance / you guys are so kind towards me always and i know you gave this chance to me / i am very strong with my opinion .Try to impress other with just word choose good words from your dictionary .Remember don't try to put the butter in conversation be clear and impressive with your personality.

Public speaking

We are very much familiar and comfortable with the unformal conversation ,we face problem with the public speaking .Among the students/on college stage /in a office meeting/ in gettogether parties / .

If you are a learner try these things .

Be prepare- It sounds so technical but this is effective . Trust to yourself and prepare in front of the mirror and then perform in front of your friends .

Take criticism- when we try something new with all heart we accept only appraisal but the reality is not so acceptable , same we have to be ready for the criticism and harsh comments.

Eye contact -Make eye contact with everyone .Don't look at only one person that can create embarrassing moment for you . look at the crowd or any center object pass smile then perform .Try to be comfortable in your space .


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रात

  जैसे जैसे रात होती है, वो मेरे कंधे पर बैठ जाती थी, कहते है भूतो में वजन  होता है, लेकिन मुझे तो अच्छा लगता है , हम पूरी रात बाते करते, उसकी आवाज़ मेरी जैसी ही है, जैसे मै बिना लिपस्टिक लगाए लगती हूँ , same  वैसी ही है वो भी, लेकिन उसके हाथ सुंदर है, और वो कम बोलती है  " पर हम बाते करते है, रोते है, और सुबह होने पर चुप हो जाते है, उसको पसंद नहीं है, किसी से मिलना, वो मुझे सब की बात बताती है,   मुझे अच्छी  लगती है अब वो, जैसे मुझे किसी का डर नहीं,  उसने कहा नहीं अभी तक कुछ करने का, लेकिन बस वो नाराज़ होती है, जैसे कोई चेहरा बनाता वो वैसे, अच्छी दोस्त है वो मेरी, उसने बोला है वो मुझे एक दिन अपने साथ ले कर जाएगी!  

SIGN UP

This word you definitely see so many time .when ever you access any account. According to Cambridge dictionary the meaning of sign up -“To agree  to become  involved  in an organized  activity ”  in other words Any of account need few of permission from your-side  . many time you get offer ,cash back ,coupons, vouchers and many more surprises. But for that sign up first this pop up always flash on the top. Life is always do the same thing with us Life need your sign up .  sign up at your work that you want to do .sign up towards the passion that gives you open arm offer of full life that you want so badly . Sign up in our love so no one can take that happiness before you ..sign up in the every moment that you just ignore because other think that is useless.you know this truth very well -the single sign up give you hamper of gifts. Life always give us opportunity .but the point is how many time we grab it ,and how many time we sh...

Sun Temple Kashmir

  Martand sun Temple Kashmir  The Martand Sun Temple , also known as the Martand Temple or Martand Bhawan, is an ancient Hindu temple located in Anantnag district of Jammu and Kashmir, India. The temple was dedicated to the Sun God and was built in the 8th century by King Lalitaditya Muktapida of the Karkota Dynasty. It is considered to be one of the finest examples of Kashmiri architecture. The temple was built on a plateau, which overlooks the beautiful Kashmir Valley . It was constructed using grey limestone and is believed to have been built over a period of several centuries. The temple complex originally consisted of a central shrine, surrounded by a large courtyard, with 84 smaller shrines surrounding it. The central shrine, which was dedicated to the Sun God, was built on a high platform and had a gabled roof. The temple was renowned for its intricate carvings and beautiful architecture. The walls and pillars of the temple were adorned with beautiful carvings, depict...